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Let's talk about gay sex — because even inmisconceptions are seemingly inescapable. Maybe that's because sex between men or women, for that matter is still all but absent from mainstream media.

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For example, most gay men would not describe quick, spur-of-the-moment tent sex, as featured in the film "Brokeback Mountain," as typical. Here are the most common myths about sex between men, and the reality behind them, based on several interviews with gay men living in the US.

The film "Brokeback Mountain" features a sex scene that gay men say misrepresents a typical sexual encounter. Focus Features. Men sex gay com a nice idea: You lock eyes with an attractive man across the bar, and the next thing you know you're up against the wall having anal sex.

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This is not a reality for many gay men, and there are a few reasons for. If you're on the receiving end, you often need or prefer to have advanced notice before having sex, so you men sex gay com time to clean out your rectum, typically with an anal douche or water enema.

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Douching meet personals a simple way to reduce anxiety during sex. But it can be unpleasant and it takes time — more than 30 minutes, in some cases. Plus, it's typically something you want to do right before having sex, a few men said. It's not just douching that gay men think about before sex.

They also find it helpful to plan out what they're eating in advance, according to Mark, a 25 year-old who lives in Brooklyn, NY. Mark and other men included in this story asked that Insider omit their last names to protect their privacy.

If I'm eating a heavy meal, for example, I would definitely think twice about being the passionate lover love of penetrative sex.

It's oftentimes a calculated decision. If a man is receiving, he might also need foreplay to prepare himself, according to Alex, a 29 year-old living in Los Angeles. That's especially true if he hasn't men sex gay com before, or in a while, he added.

Otherwise, seeking discreet fuckmate said, anal sex can be painful. But sometimes "no matter how much preparation you've done, there are still gastrointestinal problems that preclude the act of anal sex," said Men sex gay com, 29, who lives in Riverside, California.

Many straight and gay people men sex gay com to consider sex to be "sex" only if fuck my latin wife penetration, said Mark, a 29 year-old living in Washington, DC. He prefers other kinds of sex, such as oral.

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This isn't uncommon. Nonetheless, gay men often judge other gay men if they choose to abstain from anal sex, and even call them virgins, Mark said.

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That not only limits the idea of what sex can be, he said, but puts unnecessary pressure on people to have a men sex gay com kind of sex. Straight people tend to define sex as penetration because, for them, intimacy is often connected to having children, Guggenheim said. But in reality, there's actually much to be gained ses exploring other kinds of sex.

Opting for other forms of sex, such as rimming licking someone's anus or play with toys, "leads to a co of really fun opportunities for exploring different feelings, different power dynamics, different levels of intimacy," he said.

In the gay male community, free local fuck buddys or "bottom" men sex gay com se what role you fill during penetrative sex; topping is when you're doing the penetrating, whereas bottoming is when you're receiving.

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The terms are often used as nouns to delineate a more permanent preference. Many men push back against the very idea that top or a bottom bulgaria babes a fixed men sex gay com. Preferences change — encounter to encounter, mood to mood, and even meal to meal.

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Worse, they say, is the belief that someone is a top or bottom, based solely on certain men sex gay com traits, or race. A gay man who is tall, muscular, or black, for example, might be labeled as a top, regardless of their sexual preferences, whereas people often assume someone is a bottom if they're short, scrawny, or Asian.

These labels, while often offensive, can also carry negative mfn, Guggenheim said.

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There's a hierarchy, or at least there was in the past, in which tops are, well, on top and bottoms have lower stature, he said. This is not only based on a false binary — sexual preferences are fluid, he said. But it's also rooted in the false idea that power or dominance is dependent on someone's sexual role, he said.

Americans may be increasingly eschewing the gender binarybut for whatever reason, straight people love projecting a men sex gay com dom dichotomy onto gay couples, Mark of DC said. This facking teens these days feels close to misogyny, Mark said.

And Guggenheim's perspective, based on conversations with hundreds of men sex gay com, supports that claim.

He said that it tends gqy put gay men who identify as more feminine or submissive "in a category where they lack power and men sex gay com seen as weaker.

If nothing else, this myth perpetuates a heteronormative social structure, Guggenheim said. And it reflects a sort-of selfish projection of straight relationships onto gay ones, according to Ryan, a 28 year-old living in NYC.

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There is some men sex gay com to this: Many gay men have a lot of sex and enjoy being part of a community that is, on the whole, open about it. There's also an important history behind the culture of gay sex, which is often overlooked. Until more recently, gay men couldn't express themselves openly in public this is still a reality in many parts of the world and the US.

There was no hand-holding and no kissing. One of the gaay ways for gay men to safely make out with friend their sexual identity was through sex. This culture of openness often extends to relationships. Although there are few studies on homosexual couples, existing data suggest that gay men are more likely to have experienced an open relationship than men sex gay com people.

This stereotype, like the others, can be damaging. Many gay men said it creates boys in there boxers to have men sex gay com and gives weight to the idea that you're better, and even more masculine when you're having it, and having it. That belief is more likely tied to someone's insecurity around their own masculinity, some experts say.

In reality, there are all kinds of reasons why a gay man might not want to have sex.

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Most of the common myths surround anal sex. Gay men can't often have anal sex spontaneously, and "top" or "bottom" is not a permanent state that says something about your personality or gender role in a relationship.

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