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First, some history: When I was a child, watching my pops get ready to go out was something to behold.

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He would spend hours preparing his mask every morning for whatever crowd, person or community he faced. Even years later, my pops still took longer to get ready than my mother and sister combined, delicately taking a black Sharpie giel any stray grays that might pop up in his goatee.

My pops would explain that as a young man in gilr Dominican Republic, you had to work so hard perfecting yourself, preparing your mask, so that when tyats young European or American woman came through, she might choose you, as he would put it, might take you home lonely women Siah Kaldeh her, like that was your only way.

Later he made his way to New York City, where he met my mother, who is Colombian.

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Selected by whom became and remains my dilemma. I talked around it, mumbling about how I was trying to figure out who I was or. There was nothing wrong ihto her at all.

It just kind of happened. Over the years I have dated brown women and black women, but mostly white women.

I also got weird vibes from some white people, namely the parents of the women I was dating. And the ones who asked me if I speak Mexican. Yes, that is absolutely a thing. Which means that in the eyes of others, the color of the women I date is a gir, deal.

I see people watching me with a stink eye, noses turned up, as if they think black and brown people would somehow be better off if I dumped my white girlfriend. I started reading James Baldwin, Ta-Nehisi Coates and other black and brown authors drunk first time lesbian for guidance, a road map, help on what it means to be a brown man in the world.

Yes, our bodies have been colonized. Yes, I am a child of blackness. Yes, the black body has done more for society than it has gotten in return.

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Yes, society seems to want to embrace a lot of things associated with blackness without actually being black. How did we ino here? If everyone is so woke, why are things so terrible? Anyway, what am I supposed to do? How do I love as a brown body in the world in a way that makes everybody happy?

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Am I the problem or is everyone else? Do white women find me attractive or do they see me as some exotic idea they should find attractive? Do I find white women attractive or do I see them as some exotic idea I should find attractive?

Not because of what or whom we love, but as a way out, a way of being seen and of being saved. That my power is only as valuable as the person by my. A whole system is coded within me.

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Before I was born, my mother told my father she was pregnant at 3 a. She and my pops made a commitment to give us children everything they never had, to strive and achieve and provide for us, and in response to their aspiration, some in their world thought they were leaving their roots behind and trying to become something.

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What does that mean — trying to be white? In truth, colorism has always been a thing.

My grandmother and other grandmothers and mothers would warn us: I should have spoken up. You ever look at old family albums?

You ever look at me? You ever look at yourself?

Not even close. So here I stand, trying to be woke, and not dating white women, and feeling kind of bad about.

“That guy over there.” I was talking to my friend, Kim, as we sipped cocktails at a bar in Hollywood. She followed my gaze. “The bald white. And her high praise included black women — that underdog demo that, mind when she made the disclaimer about finding white men attractive, too. I've noticed that when a straight white woman dates a straight black guy. I became obsessed with the idea of marrying a white guy at a very young age. I hooked up with so many white men, mostly foreigners and couple of South Africans. He was always criticizing black people and told me upfront that he did not want to marry Everywhere we went people would look at us.

And also, I mean, a lot of white women are really cool. Obviously white women are cool.

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All women are cool. Cool is such a simple word, not the word I want to be using right. Modern Love can be reached at modernlove nytimes.

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